A woman who have slept with a hundred man might b stretched to her limit physically and a man who has slept with a hundred women might just lose his fervour in d bedroom physical and mentally as well. WOMEN THAT ARE CONSTANTLY ON THE HOE STROLL MAKE IT DIFFICULT FOR WOMEN LIKE ME WHO ARE NOTWOMEN WHO CARRY THEMSELVES WITH DECENCY AND RESPECT. Thank you, Lord, for what you have done that we couldnt do for ourselves. To use the analogy of work, yes, fair comment. I just dont put it all in one article because it would make them to long to be honest. Womens happiness within committed relationships also goes down as her partner count increases. So importantly, we must take issue with the prevalent image of women as prudish and disinterested in sex. Some males like feeling dominated. Btw, there is only one true ALPHA in this entire universe. In fact, you should give yourself time to grieve the sin (Ecclesiastes 3:4; 2 Corinthians 7:10). Why must women be held to an higher standard than men? I cannot lie that finding out all the stuff about her hurt me because I generally do hold deep emotions for her, but as someone else stated, it is ridiculous to say "do not judge someone by their past", because the same cannot be said for criminals who committed a crime and now regret it. Its not right for one gender and wrong for the other. I dont know if youre a male or female judging by your username. Same goes for sluts. Its not about allowing women to act similar to men, but simply to not judge women who may have had a promiscuous past. have the ability to make the best choices for herselfimpulse control And our son, how would he view women? You are correct that you cant do anything about the man before you being bigger but I most certainly believe you can still be better. Also, studies have shown that true alpha men are not prone to getting married and if they do are much more likely to have affairs because they are not hard wired to have a family. Dont get mad if needs/wants change. I was totally promiscuous in the years between my junior year of high school and my first year and a half of college, sleeping with as many men as would opportunity present, which came to total around eight. We should strive to be righteous. Cant turn a hoe into a housewife. I believe this because I have been with someone that had many many partners. Lots of heartache there. yeah of course it matter because a hoe is a hoe. Its cute (from the human perspective) and very fairytale like to add such insertions that we should not judge, but that is very delusional and REALITY makes a great point of it every single day! Stephan when you say up your game If you are average and a past lover of hers was well endowed there is nothing positions, creativity, or use of toys can compensate for. Just like that song in the 70s that said, so many men so little time how can they Choose. Well it certainly does which really makes these women very Pathetic. Because if not, there should be no issue. And, it will happen. I mean, you dont really know what was going on in their life at that point either. It is the little matter of lying about the past that makes it untennable. Who you allow inside yourself matters. Lastly, a man will respect you if he respects himself and others, especially women. Wow this has just help me so much. As of today a lot of women in late teens and 20's are in a "hoe stroll" and this article in just another trash it makes them have a reason / justifying their action. Im hoping this article opens some eyes and gets people to start looking at all of this differently. Im surprised by the comments Ive seen so far! what associations are you making in regard to the fears and concerns you might have? Again there is much more that can be said about this study and this topic. The way i look at this, is it shouldnt matter how many partners she has. If you find someone youre into, thats all that matters. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Who's your favourite member of the royal family? To me there was no perfect guy except for in fairy tales and even then some of the princes had problems. He controls himself. Yes some women can bond with a man after their promiscuity days, but how many divorces still occur? I understand your position but I think you are not properly receiving the message of this article. I might ride in it a A Woman or Man that sleeps with 100 people is emotionally DEAD! Doesnt mean a man will like it, but is it really worth letting go of a good thing because of a number. Well said. Im not saying this is ok, or validating them telling a lie, but this is the reality. My wife has been much more sexually active than I have. Society is so flawed at this point in our lives that I almost feel in-adequately experienced enough to even attempt to date. Im female, but Im not emotional, insecure or needy. They want a woman, someone different than they are. The idea behind waiting for marriage may have been feasible decades ago but that ideology is based in religion and if youre not a religious person what exactly are you waiting for? A dream. What I want to encourage you to do is to understand what is done is done. If you are confident, you will be more understanding of others. Just look at them in the same light. is out of sync with reality(and they are becoming increasingly aware it just kills me that women be the main one judging other women. We can do better. She is the exact opposite of what my current girlfriend is. As I've tried to read about the concept of dating a slut I have been unable to find any success stories about someone who has dated a slut long term but I have found a lot of mostly red pill stuff that has said it is a bad idea. Does my ex-gf and her bf want a thruple with me? I firmly believe that the more people that you date, the harder that it will be to find love. And for the women who cry out that the number of partners doesnt matter, then why not just be honest. Im sure /your/ marriage will be different though. Of course you agree. The majority of women are not sluts, as witnessed by the median number of partners for the American woman, and it is not hard to find one. This post also feels like a way to almost look for what I want to hear i.e. Twitter. Furthermore for both sex d rare and tear is evident. To give you all an example I will use myself because I honestly couldnt care less what you think about me. Knowing her past is good in understanding who she was and who she has become, but who she is today should hold the most weight in determining if she is the best person for you. I had a serious relationship with my ex wehn i was 26, i lost my virginity to him, however he did not lose it with me, i knew he had an ex..but that never bothered me i loved and cared for him just the same, we both wanted to get married but it was not able to materialize as parents would not agree. Men spread seed and women try to attract the best seed they can find. Masculine females attract more feminine guys in the relationship aspects. The choices a person makes in life reflect upon that individuals character, and /everything/ is in the past, once the moment passes, so yes, how many people someone chooses to give their body to, and under what circumstances, certainly reflects upon that individual. Frankly, education and the age of marriage are the biggest predictors of marital stability, not the number of penises a woman has been privy to prior to the marriage. Dont assume her personality/morality based on her sexual history. Would it really be wise to now walk away from her simply because an actual number is revealed. I like her a lot cause she is smart, funny, outgoing, pretty, and we just have the exact same sense of humor and get along better than I do with almost anyone in my life as we're really similar people. breaker, find out the reason, spend time and get to know that person As soon as women get that into their thick sex driven heads they will realise the truth. A man does not want to have to compete with previous Mr. Big. Don't forget to follow us on social networks! She told me that she thought sleeping around was dangerous and that she wanted to wait until marriage. Men still are conscious of disease and do not want a woman who has been Maybe instead of looking up information about "dating a slut," look up information like "like a girl but she has slept with many other guys." Give me the infected one having only 2 men rather than the clean one after 30 physical infections have cure infections in the soul dont . I on the other hand have done all those what ifs so they are no longer appealing to me anymore. You still come right? Sleeping with a lot of people says something about ones character. I do not agree that the more partners she has had the more likely the marriage will fail. I've bumped into the men who've used her and they all have told friends that they were embarassed to sleep with her and treated her as joke. So I am simply saying view them for who they are now, not who they once were. First, ever since our common ancestors walked out of West Or cheated or whatever. And I wouldnt ignore the past in a realtionship either. So, we all have desires we better not fulfill. Thats why I want to marry him. For me I think that was the last straw I noticed myself, not eating, and being depressed I seeked out councelling and it was determined that this double standard, combined with verbal abuse over 9 years has made me clinically depressed..She has had councelling too now and is resolving all the damage previously caused by her previous encounters. Modern times, have I think if sexuality was embraced more instead of used as a marketing tool women wouldnt be ashamed or use sex for any other means. The raw numbers are there for anyone to see, and as anyone can see, there is a strong and direct correlation between number of partners for the woman and likelihood of marriage failure. Wow! And if you are use to doing it, you really shoulnt be in a relationship because those be the ones that cheat. It doesnt matter where Ive worked, or what my experience is, or how successful I have been at what Ive done. This is still me Fourth, I work globally. Ive already had my experiences with other lovers and hes better than all of those other men put together!! I checked out this study and there is so much I can say. Im done now . Promiscuous people usually are incapable of having long-term Who has moved forward and disregarded her past. What matters is if there is real love between two people. Much wiser to look at how a person has actually lived a life. But sadly they werent. idk how to both handle my parents and be safe around them. I feel like my bf doesn't love me anymore and it scares me. You would have to be in it to understand. By your logic, nothing matters, and we should all turn our brains off. This is definitely topic that deserves to be discussed further. Society is emotionally drained because of this ignorant behavior. Im going to judge and hold people to the same standards Ive applied to myself. 0. So when they say save yourself for the right one remember the word ONE u can say girl see whats out there see what u like live life but remember u are not only keeping apart of that person u sleep with in you, you are also exposing that person to your future kids and shaming your future spouses bloodline stop trying to justify being a hoe. For example, if your Thank you for your comment it is one of the most spot on and helpful in the thread. Yeah but we need to respect our bodies as men too. What girl will you marry? Not to mention her self-esteem would of been shattered. Nothing special about a woman who has casual sex. Ill always get laid. Again I am not saying go out there and be loose just addressing your point about the wear and tear. Love your post ur so real thanks dude not some fake that write stuff as if they are all dat holy. Let her know your goal is to simply be better, and to have peace within yourself about this issue. As you are starting to realize, it isnt worth holding over someones head, especially when it is the woman you love. In fact, white middle-class college-educated women in their twenties are widely recognized by researchers to have more sex partners than any other group of women; the 1995 National Survey of Family Growth reports that women in these three categories (of race, income and education) have the highest proportions of four or more partners over their lifetimes (39).https://karmak.org/archive/2002/10/portrait.html. No man grows up saying, I cant wait to find a nice slut to settle down and build a family with!!. A woman might think that since shes not a virgin anymore, it doesnt matter what she does sexually from here on out. The fact remains, the more partners a woman has had, the less likely her marriage(s) are to last. No one should be lied to in a relationship. I wont pretend that some people (not just woman) choose to be promiscuous for various reasons which include abuse or low self-esteem. I know it is a struggle that will never end and at times I dont think i can handle it. I falled in love with a woman that had sex with around 700 partners before me. It encourages an atmosphere of male entitlement. What happens to the guy that took a chance on her got his emotions wrapped up in her only to have them stomped on? And any woman Some she didnt even remember their names